How To Get The Best Out Of Your Mentor

22.Jul.2019 @ 12:13 PM

The mentoring process can be a stressful thing for both parties. It can be stressful for the mentee because he or she may feel as if they are not quite as successful as they would like (hence why they are seeking the help of a mentor). They may, therefore, feel pressured to succeed after seeking the help of a mentor. They may also feel anxiety about the fact that they sought the help of a mentor; perhaps they may worry about what others may say. These are just a few of the feelings that one may have during the mentoring process. On the other hand, your mentor may have certain feelings of anxiety too. Your mentor may be worried about whether they can help you to succeed. Moreover, your mentor may be worried about having to deal with a completely foreign issue. In essence, despite being a trained professional, your mentor is perfectly likely to feel nervous when dealing with a new client. That is why it is highly important to establish a good relationship with your mentor. In my opinion, that is the first step to making sure that you get the best out of your mentor. A good relationship enables trust, clarity and openness which is vital. Let us now explore some of the other ways in which you can get the best out of your mentor.

The first way to ensure that you get the best out of your mentor is by being absolutely honest with them. Though they may seem like a complete stranger, your mentor’s number one purpose is to help you improve yourself. It is vitally important, therefore, for you to tell them the whole truth. This will enable them to fully understand the ways in which they can help you. It will also strengthen your relationship which will be useful for future scenarios.

In addition, you can get the best out of your mentor by knowing exactly what it is that you want to improve upon. You may, for example, feel as if you are lacking in confidence and hence want to do some exercises which will help to improve your confidence. On the other hand, you may feel as if you are lacking motivation; therefore, meaning that you need help with that aspect of your life. Whatever the case, your mentor will be able to fully help you when you know exactly what you want. I would advise you to think about what you want before you visit your mentor.

In summary, these are just a couple of basic things that you can do that will help you to get the best out of your mentor. The experience can be daunting, so try to stay as calm as possible and just try to enjoy it. For more information on how to get the best out of your mentor, or on mentoring in general, visit